You know the pattern. You fall for someone who pulls away, keeps you guessing, or can't quite meet you where you are. And somehow it keeps happening. Here's the real reason why — and what it takes to change it.

You keep showing up for people who don't show up back — and you can't figure out why you keep doing it. It's not a willpower problem. It's not a boundaries problem. Deja Phillips, LSW, CADC explains the attachment pattern underneath overgiving in friendships — and what it actually takes to change it.

Nobody validates friendship grief the way they validate a breakup. But sometimes losing a close friend hits harder — and there's a real psychological reason for that.

Deja Phillips, LSW, CADC breaks down what's actually happening when friendship loss devastates you — and what it's telling you about yourself.

You told yourself you were overreacting. But the pain didn't go away — and there's a reason for that.

Deja Phillips, LSW, CADC, explains what's really happening in your nervous system when a friend pulls away — and why it often isn't just about the friendship.