BLACK COUPLES COUNSELING • CHICAGO & ACROSS ILLINOIS

Therapeutic connection and support between individuals in a counseling relationship

You’re tired of the same fight.

Break the cycle, heal your connection, and build a stronger future together. We offer expert therapy for Black couples facing unique challenges.

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Accepting New Clients

We have immediate openings for couples. Start your journey to healing today.
In Network Insurance

We accept Blue Cross Blue Shield PPO, Blue Cross Blue Shield Medicare, and Aetna PPO.
Virtual Sessions Available

Connect with a therapist from the comfort of your home with secure online video counseling.

OUR APPROACH

Couples Therapy That Meets You Where You Are

You're here because something isn't working the way you want it to. Maybe you keep having the same fight, or maybe you don't feel as close as you used to. Whatever brought you here, you don't have to figure it out alone.

We work with Black couples who want to feel more connected, communicate better, and break out of the patterns that keep them stuck. Relationships don't exist in a bubble. Real-life stress, family history, and past experiences all show up between partners, and we make space for that.

In sessions, we focus on helping you truly understand each other, work through hard conversations, and handle conflict in healthier ways. This is a space where both of you can be honest, feel respected, and have real conversations about what matters.

There is no one-size-fits-all approach. We focus on what's actually happening in your relationship and what will help you move forward together.

IS THIS FOR US?

If This Is Your Relationship

Constant Conflict & Miscommunication

Feeling unheard, misunderstood, or stuck in repetitive arguments without resolution.

Emotional Distance & Disconnect

Experience a lack of intimacy, trust, or feeling like roommates instead of partners.

External Stressor

Navigating challenges related to family, career, societal pressure, or past experiences affecting your bond.

How Therapy Helps

Effective Communication Tools

Learn practical skills to express needs clearly and listen actively to your partner.

Conflict Resolution Strategies

Develop healthy ways to manage disagreements and move forward constructively.

Secure and confidential therapy services built on trust and professional standards

Rebuild Trust & Intimacy

Address past hurts and rebuild emotional and physical connection.

Relationship focused therapy supporting connection, communication, and emotional intimacy

Strengthening Your Bond

Cultivate a deeper sense of partnership, shared goals, and mutual support.

WHAT TO EXPECT

Transform Your Relationship

Renewed Connection
& Intimacy

Experience greater emotional closeness and a stronger sense of partnership.

Improved Conflict
Management

Navigate disagreement with more understanding and less volatility.

Long-Term Relationship Satisfaction

Build a resilient foundation for a happier, healthier, and more fulfilling future together.

THE PRACTICAL STUFF

How It Works

Virtual sessions from anywhere in Illinois. No commute, no waiting room, no awkward parking lot encounters.

💻 MEET FROM YOUR HOME

✅ CULTURALLY INFORMED CARE

Therapy that honors your identity, your background, and your lived experience.

We know you're busy. We offer flexible scheduling including evenings and weekends.

🕐 EVENING APPOINTMENTS AVAILABLE

💳 WE ACCEPT INSURANCE

Blue Cross Blue Shield of Illinois (BCBSIL) PPO and Aetna PPO plans accepted.

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MEET YOUR THERAPIST

Deja Phillips, LSW, CADC

A confident woman with braided hair and earrings leaning against a stone wall outdoors, wearing a maroon jacket.

Deja Phillips

Couples Therapist

I work with couples who are tired of the same old patterns and ready to try something different. I'm not here to tell you what to do or take sides. I'm here to help you see what's really happening between you—and give you the tools to change it.

I'm trained in the Gottman Method because it works. It's not about feelings and theories—it's about practical skills backed by decades of research. I also bring trauma-informed care into every session because I know that how we love today is shaped by how we were loved growing up.

I don't sugarcoat things, and I don't let you give up on each other when there's still hope. I work with couples in crisis, couples rebuilding after betrayal, couples who are ready to try something different.

TRAINING & SPECIALTIES

✔️ Gottman Method Trained

✔️ Couples Therapy

✔️ Mindfulness-Based

✔️ Anxiety & PTSD

✔️ Trauma-Informed Care

✔️ Addiction Recovery

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What Our Clients Say

“Therapy has helped me understand my emotions on a deeper level and respond to them in healthier ways. I’ve improved my emotional intelligence, learned to regulate my feelings, and now handle challenges with greater balance and clarity. Walk With Me Counseling Center has truly helped me grow.”

- T. W.
“Since incorporating the strategies from my sessions, I’ve noticed a real difference in how I handle stress and emotions. I respond more calmly, manage challenges with greater ease, and feel more in control of my reactions. Walk With Me Counseling Center has helped me build the skills to navigate life’s difficulties with resilience and confidence.”

- C. C.
“Through therapy, I’ve become more aware of my triggers and, more importantly, how to manage them. I’ve seen a real reduction in my symptoms and feel more in control of my emotions and reactions. Walk With Me Counseling Center has given me the tools to navigate life with greater confidence and peace.”

- R. N.
“For a long time, I struggled to express my needs and stand up for myself. Through my work with Walk With Me Counseling Center, I’ve gained the confidence to assert myself in ways I never thought possible. I now communicate more clearly, set boundaries with ease, and feel empowered in my relationships. This journey has truly been life-changing.”

- S. M.
“I’ve tried therapy before but left feeling discouraged. This time, it’s different. The support and empowerment I’ve found at Walk With Me Counseling Center have given me the motivation to continue. For the first time, I feel truly heard, supported, and capable of making real progress. I’m grateful for this partnership and the hope it’s restored in me.”

- K. C.
“A toxic relationship can feel familiar and I wanted mine to work, even when I knew it was unhealthy. I worried about balancing my own needs with my daughter’s, and I wasn’t sure where to turn. Walk With Me Counseling Center helped me find clarity and the strength to move forward. Through therapy, I rediscovered my love for poetry, gained confidence in my creativity, and found the right support for my daughter. With renewed energy and a strong foundation, we’re both thriving. If you’re feeling stuck, know that feeling happy and at peace is possible—for you and those you love.”

- J. W.
“I once believed I could fix my toxic relationship, but deep down, I felt lost. Confronting my past was terrifying, and setting boundaries seemed impossible. Walk With Me Counseling Center gave me the space and guidance to heal. I processed childhood trauma, ended the relationship that was holding me back, and started prioritizing my well-being. Along the way, I gained financial stability, built a supportive circle of friends, and rediscovered my self-worth. The journey wasn’t easy, but it was worth it. If you’re struggling to take that first step, know that healing and freedom are possible.”

- J. T.
"Tasha came highly recommended, and from our very first conversation, I understood why. Her impeccable listening skills and thoughtful insights make every session impactful. She has a rare gift—not just hearing what you say, but helping you find clarity and confidence in your next steps. Her blend of professionalism, expertise, and genuine care makes her an invaluable resource. Whether navigating challenges or celebrating wins, I’m grateful to have Tasha on my wellness team. Anyone would be lucky to have her support on their journey to healing and growth."

- S. T.
“I felt stuck— unsure of my future, and afraid to take the next step. Change felt overwhelming, and I didn’t know where to start. Walk With Me Counseling Center helped me push past my fears. I learned how to communicate better, focus on my growth, and take action. Now, I’m in school, building a future I’m excited about, and strengthening my relationships. I’m still on this journey, but for the first time, I feel hopeful. If you’re feeling lost, know that change is possible with the right support.”

- G. C.
“I never thought change was possible…until it was. I felt trapped in toxic relationships, afraid to say no, and overwhelmed by my responsibilities. Prioritizing myself seemed impossible. At Walk With Me Counseling Center, I found a safe space to heal. I learned to trust myself, set boundaries, and care for my well-being. My confidence grew, and for the first time, I believed in a better future for myself and my child. If you feel stuck, know this—healing is possible, and you don’t have to do it alone.”

- D. L.
"I wasn’t sure what to expect from therapy, but every session brings aha moments that shift my perspective. The support and insights I’ve gained have helped me grow in ways I never imagined."

- D. Y.

Ready to Invest in Your Relationship?

Don’t wait until it’s too late. Take the first step towards a stronger, more connected partnership today. Contact us to schedule your free consultation and learn how we can support you.

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