SELF-ESTEEM AND NEGATIVE SELF-TALK THERAPY ∙ CHICAGO & ACROSS ILLINOIS

One thing goes wrong. And suddenly everything is wrong with you.

You’re still replaying it that night, and even when things go well, your mind finds something to criticize. You can learn to treat yourself fairly, and you don’t have to figure it out alone.

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IT’S NOT THE TRUTH ABOUT YOU

Negative Self-Talk Isn’t a Character Flaw

That harsh voice was learned. Maybe your mistakes got more attention than your effort, or you were compared with someone else. A painful relationship, trauma, a breakup, or a big change may have shaken confidence you used to have.

What was learned can be looked at and changed. You can talk about what happened without being rushed to forgive, move on, or find the lesson in it.

WHAT NEGATIVE SELF-TALK ACTUALLY FEELS LIKE

If This Feels Familiar

You have a different set of rules for yourself

You forgive other people for forgetting, struggling, or needing help. When it’s you, it feels like proof that you’re falling short.

The mistake follows you home

Someone seems disappointed, and you wonder what you should have done differently. “I should be further along by now” plays on repeat.

You talk yourself out of things

You put off applying for the job, stay quiet when you have something to say, or ask several people for advice because you don’t trust your own answer.

HOW THERAPY HELPS

What We Do Together

This isn’t about forcing yourself to think positively. We’ll look at specific situations and ask whether your thoughts are giving you a fair picture of what happened.

Stand up to the “thought bullies”

Ashlee Rodgers-Pritchett, LCPC, calls harsh, self-critical thoughts “thought bullies.” When your mind says “I mess everything up,” you’ll examine what actually happened instead of accepting it as fact.

Practice what you’ve been avoiding

Make a decision without asking for approval, take a compliment without explaining it away, or rehearse the conversation you’ve been putting off.

Respond honestly, not harshly.

If you really did make a mistake, you can own it and decide what to repair without turning against yourself.

Steady yourself in the moment

Grounding skills help you pause when anxiety or frustration takes over. Ashlee draws from CBT, ACT, and DBT, and adjusts as you learn what helps.

WHAT CHANGES

Life When the Inner Critic Gets Quieter

You trust your own answer

Decisions get easier, and you stop needing everyone else to sign off first.

After a few months of therapy, clients describe changes like these:

You can take a compliment

When someone says you did well, you believe them, even if it was hard.

You speak up, even when you’re unsure

You apply, ask, and share your ideas without waiting until you feel confident.

THE PRACTICAL STUFF

How It Works

Virtual sessions from anywhere in Illinois. No commute, no waiting room, no awkward parking lot encounters.

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You should not have to explain your whole world before therapy can actually help. As a Black-owned practice, we understand that culture, identity, and lived experience shape the work we do together.

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You don’t have to feel confident before asking for help.

You’ve been carrying that inner critic for a long time, and it keeps telling you that you’re not doing enough.

It’s not the whole story, and you don’t have to keep listening to it alone.